Sunday, May 8, 2011

Mother's Day of 2011

Happy Mother's Day 
to all of our
Family & Friends

Today was spent pretty much like every other day. Nothing too exciting took place as we spent the day at home. For the most part the kids have been amazingly well behaved, which has been the highlight of my day! Can't complain when all three of the little ones manage to get along and do as they are told. Perfect Mother's Day gift! 

This morning the girls gave me the gifts they made for me at school over the past week. Very creative! They were both so excited to finally give them to me this morning. Seems that since Friday they have been trying their hardest to not spoil their surprises!

Caitlin made me a book with her picture on the outside and the sweetest letter on the inside. She drew me a few pictures at school, including a real good one of Arthur. She did a wonderful job drawing and coloring him! Once home, she borrowed my stapler so that she could add more pages to it with more drawings and some more that she wrote. Of course, Nic was beyond excited when she gave it to me and said, "Look Mom. Look at what we made you." How cute! Caitlin was awesome with not telling him that she made it. She let him enjoy his moment, which made me very proud of her. 


Breanna ended up making a few things in class for me. Her teacher had some great ideas for them! She made me a magnet with her photo inside of it and a little keepsake box, both out of Popsicle sticks. The box has marbles on the bottom, as legs, and the top has a marble on top in order to take the cover piece on and off. She also cut out a tea pitcher and inside of it, she wrote me a sweet note and included a Cinnamon Flavored Tea Packet.    


We hope each and every mother out there had an amazing Mother's Day! Remember the moms that are serving overseas right now, as they are away from their children and families on this day! May they always remain in our hearts and in our prayers. Praying they all come home safely! ~Britt

El Paso Sandstorms

We had some terrible sand storms the week of the traumatic tornadoes that hit so much of our country, which is why I did not say anything about our sand storms. We had winds that were up to 75mph, and sadly, it's something that we tend to be use to in El Paso. It doesn't happen all the time, but often enough that most of us know how to handle them. Driving in the winds is terrible and there is no going outside. It gets so bad, Breanna will call me on the bus to ask me to pick them up at the bus stop.

Kevin managed to take some pictures from his phone while sitting in his car on post. Thankfully, our houses out here are made for this kind of weather. About the only thing they are made for! We learned in February that El Paso houses are not made for the cold! lol. When we have the real windy days, everyone stays inside and limits all outdoor activities. Bre has to really watch out because those days put her asthma into full swing. When I say sandstorms, I mean the wind is so strong you can't see but a couple feel in front of you. The sand hurts and burns when it slams into your skin and you find sand in places that you never thought sand could land! 



The biggest downside to it, is that it kicks Kev's PTSD into full swing. It brings the flashbacks from Iraq. They had sandstorms all the time. El Paso is the worst place to be for these guys returning from war! It really angers me that they allow them to come here after living the hell they lived over there. There are too many things in El Paso that remind our troops of being deployed! However, I will save that topic for another blog! Probably on my other site.

Friday, May 6, 2011

March Monster Jam in El Paso

Early March, Kevin and I had our first date night in quite awhile. Monster Jam was in town and for the first time ever, we were able to go. It was held at UTEP's stadium. This was the first one for both of us to attend, which was of course a lot better than watching it on TV as we typically do. The only down part was the crowd was hard on Kevin. which made us rush out of the stadium as soon as it was over. Overall though, it was just nice to be out with Kevin for once. Next date night that happens, I can already tell you, will NOT take place in a stadium or anywhere with a lot of people. I felt terrible for even wanting to go and even worse for us going. Especially since I know that the main reason he agreed to attend was for me. 

Of course, we watched Grave Digger do his thing and as always, he did an awesome job!

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Right From Wrong in the Death of Bin Laden

As a society, we tend to teach our kids right from wrong and instill proper morals, as well as character in order for our children to grow into responsible and well mannered adults. We teach our children that murder is wrong, as are other sins. We strive to teach our children to follow the laws and rules of life and to be the best they can in all they do. We teach them that our military is is full of selfless people that are willing to put their life on the line in order to keep our country safe. We have lived through and shown them the way our country was destroyed and torn apart on September 11, 2001 when we were faced with and had to endure our country's worse terrorist attack on our own soil. We watched as planes flew into the Twin Towers, The Pentagon, and a field in Pennsylvania and we watched the Towers come crumbling down. Sadly, we all watched as thousands of innocent Americans became victims in the latest terrorist attack that Al Qaeda had set out for against the United States and managed to accomplish. The rest of the world watched us, as we fell apart, just as they have watched as we have managed to rebuild ourselves. I won't say overcome what happened, because, in all reality, I really am not sure if we can really ever just overcome this type of terrorist attack. We saw our country come together as one and show more patriotism than Americans had ever shown before. Within time, we saw many selfless, young Americans stand at a recruiting office and sign their name over to our military, knowing that in due time, they would be face to face with war, all the while never knowing what the ended outcome would be or what the future would hold. For years now, we have not  known who will return from war or what families will be greeted by that dreadful knock and the conversation that starts with "On behalf of the United States Army (or whatever branch they were apart of)....." before hitting their floor because their whole world has just come crashing down.

As Americans scrambled and fought to hold together, Muslim nations across the world condemned the attacks, Iran had over 60,000 Spectators gathered with candles, observing a moment of silence. Al Qaeda was the one of the few that cheered for this attack, one that we refused to let hold us down. Yet, here we are rejoicing over the death of Bin Laden in ways that we shouldn't be. What happened to us being better people? In no way am I saying that it is wrong that this demon is dead. What is wrong are the ones standing in the streets yelling, screaming, and chanting over a death, as though they were taking place in a World Championship win, Superbowl Win, or the win of their favorite baseball team win as they win the World Series. This is not how patriotism is supposed to work. I do firmly believe in an eye for an eye, but I don't believe in the response that I have seen. How can we preach things to our kids and to society, yet we act in different ways. I am not against the war, because yes, I do believe that our goal and mission in this War on Terrorism was to capture Osama bin Laden and to take down Al Qaeda. We have accomplished one of our goals, but the other one, I am not sure will ever happen. There will always be terrorists out to seek some form of attack on different nations. At this point, I can't help but to wonder if  the near future we will undergo another attack on either our soil or against the Americans we have willingly and selflessly serving overseas. Justice may have been served in a sense and the monster may be dead, but the war is far from being over. Al Qaeda is now going to want to seek revenge and retaliation is now religiously on their minds. Think about it, when we were attacked, we set out to seek revenge, just as they will. The snake may be dead, but this snake is one with many heads.

In many ways, I find that we are showing double standards to our younger generation in how many have responded to the news that the world came to know in a matter of moments. Children are not understanding why so many adults are celebrating in the ways that they are over Bin Laden's death. What morals are the children now being taught to see many jump up and down, yell, and chant over an outright kill? How are children now supposed to comprehend the difference between justice and revenge? Or, is there even a difference under these circumstances?

At this point, I pray for comfort and peace. I pray that retaliation will not be brought upon our country and our people in another attack. I also hope that Americans and people across the world, are alert and fully aware of the unknown acts of revenge that could be lurking around as I write this. I hope that as parents, we are capable of explaining to our children how the world is better off without this dangerous and disturbing demon. Osama Bin Laden does not in any way deserve a place on earth, after all the destruction he has caused, the amount of bloodshed he inspired and had Al Qaeda carry out, and the lives and families he has forever disrupted. As many people may think that the past ten years is the extent of the time he has caused such things, I hope they are capable of further educating themselves that Bin Laden has brought grief and heartache to millions of people for far more than fifteen years. I also hope that people realize and understand that Al Qaeda is just one of many terrorist groups and extremists around the world.

In ending, I hope this brings some closure to the victims of 9/11 and their families. You will never be forgotten, and just as many people, my heart goes out to you all. Just as it does to our military and military families.

"I mourn the loss of thousands of precious lives, but I will not rejoice in the death of one, not even an enemy. Returning hate for hate multiplies hate, adding deeper darkness to a night already devoid of stars. Darkness cannot drive out darkness: only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate: only love can do that." —Martin Luther King Jr

Adventures in Haircutting

Last week was a personal catch up day for a couple of kids in the house. On Thursday I had to take Bre and Nic to the salon for haircuts, as you can tell in the pictures they were in much need on one! Breanna has decided to get more of a girl cut and get rid of the stringy hair that has been driving me crazy! She never wanted to take time to style it, so it was literally hanging in her face and just looked a mess! I LOVE her new cut and how she carries the style now. 

Nic was beginning to look real shaggy and close to like he had no home, so he was also in need of a cut. He did great through his time in the chair. Normally, Kev shaves his head, but this time we had to get it cut somewhere else. The picture of his final cut is as he was sitting in the chair and the stylist was trying to add gel to make it look cute. His hair was just not in an agreeing mood this day. (The cuts were on April 28, not 29).



Out in El Paso ~ Day & Night


Last month we decided to just get out and drive one Sunday afternoon. Nothing out of the ordinary for our family. While out, we drove through downtown since traffic was close to non-existent and everything was pretty much closed for the day. During our short lived journey from home, we found a parking deck downtown and decided to drive to the top in hopes of an amazing view... which we were able to see. Of course, most of you know by now, that downtown is right on the border, so we were able to see much of Mexico while we were there.



Needless to say, after seeing the city from the parking deck during the day, we decided to head back out on a Friday night to check it out at night. The kids enjoyed the night view better than the day on the previous parking deck adventure.

Monday, May 2, 2011

Our Decision on Moving Has Been Made.......

A couple months ago, after serious thinking, Kevin and I made the final decision on where we are going to move to following his medical retirement. We have picked a town that Kev fell in love with right away, a small town that has a population of around 5600 people, located away from big cities. A beautiful little town that is surrounded by mountains.... Somewhere perfect to raise our kids and somewhere perfect for Kev and his PTSD and TBI. We need to be somewhere that we can focus on us and away from the chaotic life we have come to know a little too well.

We are moving to........................





You read right, Mena, AR. We absolutely love it there and cannot wait to start a new chapter in our lives. Mena is located in Polk County, near the Oklahoma border. It's about 55 miles from Fort Smith, AR; 144 miles from Tulsa, OK; 150 miles from Little Rock, OK; 192 miles from Dallas, TX; and of course Atlanta...We will be 660 miles away from Atlanta. Which, as we all know, is a lot closer and an easier drive than we have had in eight years now! The drive to Atlanta will take around eleven hours.

Sites to check out on Mena:
http://www.cityofmena.org/
http://www.gomenaarkansas.com/attractions.asp

Everything is still the same as far as Kev's retirement goes. We are still waiting on Fort Bliss, Fort Lewis, and everyone else that is involved. The military is a little behind. As of now, he will be done with the army sometime late this year and at some point following this, we will be headed to Mena. We have no summer plans on coming out to GA, however, our house is always open to family and friends that want to visit, nor do we have plans or any idea as to when the next trip out there will be. Sorry we cannot give you any more information than that. We just have a lot going on here and are focusing on our family. 

There are still a lot of health battles that are taking place as I write this. Tomorrow morning Kevin has to undergo a surgery to remove another cancer spot from his face. Once we are moved and settled, he will have to undergo another surgery for disc replacement in his neck. I have another colonoscopy scheduled for next week due to intestinal issues I keep having. I am still waiting to hear on a surgery date for my lower spine and coccyx. There is more going on past what I have mentioned and will write about is as I know more. 

We hope everyone had a fabulous weekend!